I dont use a belt, I just like to grab hips and pull to me. I had an in ad on Craigslist years ago when it had the personals. This guy responded, said he wanted to watch his wife get fucked and kept apologizing and telling me shes an older BBW. Long story short, we get together and shes very shy almost timid, I could tell she was self-conscious. I told her I like BBWs and shes hot too me...I knew it was on when she smiled and hwr eyes lite up....we had a good time and now still get together solo without him while he's at work